It turns out my grandmother (Nan as I call her) is going through an aortic repair surgery. Normally this wouldn't be a problem however there are some...complications.
Her aorta is already a size 5 (max size is 6 I think, but this information is a few years old, it's probably increased in diameter) which is already too big to operate on but get this, if they don't operate on it she'll die....However, her aorta could burst at any moment and at that point there'd be no saving her. The same thing is also causing complications in her leg which is why it has to be operated on in the first place.
However, to be honest with you all I have my doubts that she is going to live. Coming from a logical perspective she is older, 68 to be exact, she has been smoking kinda heavily all of her life and this compared with her somewhat frail frame I honestly don't think her body is going to be able to take the stress of an already HIGH risk surgery. I spoke with my step father, a trained EMT of many years and he said from his experience he said her survival rate was low...
Anyways, I guess I just sort of need to vent a little bit lately? My summer classes have now started and honestly I guess I'm sure feeling like I'm under a lot of pressure. For real, I feel like I'm in a pressure cooker about to blow up at any second because I haven't gotten a true break from last semester's ordeal. I'm sorry if I come off as a little salty, I honestly don't mean it!
Not only are summer classes gonna be hella busy but my other grandmother(in law???Stepfather's mother) has been diagnosed with lung cancer that has now spread to her spine. Docs give her about a month to three months to live and on top of that my stepfather is getting knee replacement surgery in mid-June, close to Nan's operation.
I felt like I owed you all a full explanation as to why I have sort of ceased activity. To be honest I probably won't be posting for a while, maybe the whole summer, I don't know yet. I'll still be around lurking, replying to notes and comments, ect, but you probably won't see anything new from me for a while.
I'm so stressed and scared and worried. My stomach is in knots over everything. I don't want to attend two funerals in the same year guys, I really don't. From a logical standpoint things are pretty dismal looking. So I'm expecting the worst so I can brace myself but who knows, maybe something good will come out. OTL
Even if my Nan survives I'm going to have to be the one to take care of her and although everyone says it won't all fall on me I highly doubt that. I still don't have a job and I'm worried about running out of my saved up money because I still have to pay for my gas and insurance by myself and good god guys I'm just drowning in worry over here without a life saver in sight.
When it rains it pours I guess. OTL If you actually read through all of this congrats, i didn't mean to be so long winded goodness, I just..I just don't know.I don't know. Nan goes in for surgery June 9th so I'll keep you guys posted...For now Over and Out
-A very stressed Cheshire